Wheel Spacers 20mm 56,6mm 4x100
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Wheel Spacers 20mm 56,6mm 4x100

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Wheel Spacers 20mm 56,6mm 4x100The price applies to a set for one axle with bolts. 20mm thick spacers per side with centering flange. Product description: material PA6 duralumin distance thickness 20mm per side (40mm per axis) depth of centering hole in the distance 18mm hole collar diameter 56. 6mm hole spacing 4x100mm screws: Wheel bolt M12x1. 25 50mm Cone Wheel bolt M12x1. 5 50mm Ball Wheel bolt M12x1. 5 50mm Cone Wheel bolt M12x1. 75 50mm Cone Wheel bolt M14x1. 25 50mm Cone

The price applies to a set for one axle with bolts.

20mm thick spacers per side with centering flange.

Product description:

  • material - PA6 duralumin
  • distance thickness - 20mm per side (40mm per axis)
  • depth of centering hole in the distance - 18mm
  • hole / collar diameter - 56.6mm
  • hole spacing - 4x100mm
  • screws:
    • Wheel bolt M12x1.25 50mm Cone
    • Wheel bolt M12x1.5 50mm Ball
    • Wheel bolt M12x1.5 50mm Cone
    • Wheel bolt M12x1.75 50mm Cone
    • Wheel bolt M14x1.25 50mm Cone
    • Wheel bolt M14x1.5 50mm Ball
    • Wheel bolt M14x1.5 50mm Cone
  • screw hardness 10.9

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Our distances are made of PA6 duralumin roller, which makes them very durable and lightweight at the same time, which makes them also great for riding on the track.

Both the hole and the centering flange are created with a tolerance of up to 0.05 mm, which ensures accurate centering of the wheel and prevents the occurrence of vibrations on the steering wheel that occur when the rim is not properly aligned.

Screwed spacers are also made of duralumin with pressed knurled pins or steel threaded sleeves, which prevents thread breakage. Both pins and sleeves are secured against being pulled out when tightening the wheel by their two-stage shape.

The advantage of the distances is the increase in the track width, thanks to which the car behaves better when cornering, and also looks better because the wheels are not hidden in the fenders.

Thanks to the use of spacers, we can mount rims with other parameters such as larger offset (ET), because we level the difference precisely through the spacers. You can also use spacers that change the spacing of the bolts, which allows you to install rims from another car with the same number of fixing bolts.

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john crawford
Boise, US
★★★★★ 4
Whether you have taken the " plunge "; or thinking of that big decision....you need a GUIDE.
Format: Paperback
This book is THAT guide... It not only conveys old information in a new way, bit also delves into every area of relationship you can think of, giving sage and Scriptural insight. Got lots of books on relationships on this counselors shelves. This ranks right near the top.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 11, 2019

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